Importance of Goals in Life
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Goals in Life |
Sometimes I have people tell me things like well you know you're successful in your life because you know after all you're so motivated I'm just lazy I tell people you're not lazy you just have impotent goals what we want to do here is get some goals that will drive you some goals that got some power behind them and the way to do that realize that right now you're about to create a real future that can make a major difference for you that right now you're not just writing words down on a page that even though you don't know how this is gonna happen yet that if you get something that you really want and you make it strong enough and you find strong enough reasons you will find a way I've been goal-setting workshops what's amazing is the kinds of results that people generate I remember where a woman stood up and said I want to set a major set of financial goals and that's part of what we're gonna do in this workshop she said I want to make $100,000 and I want it in the next seven weeks the challenge I had when she said this was hey wait a second I mean seven weeks is too short a period of time this woman's never made over thirty thousand dollars in a year in personal income how next she's gonna make a hundred thousand dollars especially when she has no plan now on the one hand I'm not supportive of just setting goals arbitrarily like that on the other hand Who am I to say what you're really capable of or not capable of I think it's true that sometimes people set up goals that aren't realistic meaning they really have no clue how come he pulled off but I also know that there's tremendous power if you get committed enough and so as I started to tell this woman well maybe I ought to relook at your goal she was so strong about it that I decided to just let her keep it Who am I to stand in her way and a good thing I didn't six and a half weeks later she won the lottery and made exactly a hundred thousand dollars now what's really interesting about this story is six months later she came back to a home and we talked about in the home what she had done she said another goal that within six months this time it wasn't quite as urgent she'd make one hundred and fifty thousand dollars well she made two hundred thousand dollars again through a lottery now I'm not suggesting set a bunch of lottery goals here by any stretch and I'm not big on it I don't by lottery tickets but I just want you to realize there may be a level of understanding about how to manifest goals that's beyond what URI consciously understand and this woman certainly was pretty good at it she's not the only person I shared her story one time and a couple from Detroit listen to the story got really inspired they just said hey as long as she can get this why doesn't she ask for bigger numbers we were gonna do this thing and we're gonna make a million dollars and I've gotta kind of grit my teeth and I said look that's not what I told the story for but they got so into it and they followed all the instructions they set their goals they got strong enough wise they created the pressure and they did something else that I teach and that is to make your goal so real to get once you know what your goals are to make them so real in your mind that it feels as if you already have them when you get that level where your brain actually believes it's already happen something clicks and oftentimes within a short period of time that goal becomes realized I mean in physical situations things start to happen I know this sounds metaphysical but all I can tell you is it's worked in my life and it's worked for other people this couple went back and started telling people they'd won this lottery and I kind of quite honestly got a little upset they said look you said make it real it's so real for us now I mean we have a hard time distinguishing and sure enough they did not win the lottery two times in a row but the third time they won and they went over 1 million dollars their story's pretty legendary in our alumni group in the Detroit area and in fact across the country so I want you to know that people around them said they were nuts but they understood the power of being able to create something first in our mind everything around you in your life right now started out at one time as a thought I mean think about it what are some things that you have in your life right now some relationships some people some skills some beliefs maybe a job that once was nothing but a goal you're in that same moment now of creation you...
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